The OSPF (FRR 4.0) does not want connect with neighbors until I set the network card promisc mode:
ifconfig bxe0 promisc
on this mode all working.
Other neighbors see this neighbor and it is constantly in INIT mode.
Found a link to pfsense with a description of the problem: https://redmine.pfsense.org/issues/8324
FreeBSD virtualbox0.isp.kh.ua 11.2-PRERELEASE FreeBSD 11.2-PRERELEASE #0 r332927: Tue Apr 24 14:02:31 EEST 2018 pautina@virtualbox0:/usr/obj/usr/src/sys/VIRTUALBOX amd64
This is known problem with bxe(4) driver that has broken incoming multicast processing. Closing this as duplicate of the PR 213606 that has more details.
Meantime, you may try to fix the driver yourself as driver author seems to be unresponsible or switch to another NIC.
*** This bug has been marked as a duplicate of bug 213606 ***